“A young child contemplates the future in this inclusive picture book.
Adults often ask kids what they want to “be” when they grow up (Scientist? Architect?), but the protagonist of Murray’s story yearns to be asked how they want to be. The child imagines a future spent living a peaceful life “full of laughter and joy,” maintaining a strong connection to the Earth, and finding hidden beauty in the ordinary. They ultimately conclude that whatever their future job may be, it will “never define” them. The text is written using an ABCB rhyme scheme that helps the narrative flow toward its uplifting conclusion. Blake’s illustrations are simple but effective, with pastel colors that reflect the narrator’s inner journey—nighttime scenes full of colorful cosmic swirls, for example, emphasize the child’s infinite potential. While the representation of racial diversity is minimal (only a single picture represents multiple skin colors), Murray’s enchanting prose clearly radiates acceptance and inclusivity for all—especially those in the LGBTQ+ community. From omitting any reference to the narrator’s gender to the rainbow shorts they wear throughout the story to the child’s hope to be a parent one day to a “girl or boy. Or a they or a them,” the focus remains on embracing and loving one’s authentic self.
A joyful, inclusive celebration of one child’s potential and what really matters in life.”
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”A joyful, inclusive celebration of one child’s potential and what really matters in life.”
“A heartfelt, thought-provoking read that goes beyond being just a children’s book.”
Literary Titan — Gold Star Award & 5 Star Review
”The Question is a beautifully crafted children’s book that takes a fresh approach to the age-old question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Instead of focusing on careers or traditional aspirations, the story flips the script and asks, “How will I be when I grow up?” Through lyrical rhymes and Jo Blake’s enchanting illustrations, the book gently encourages readers—both children and adults—to think about personal qualities, kindness, curiosity, and gratitude as markers of a meaningful life.
What struck me first was how seamlessly Murray interweaves a profound message into simple, flowing verses. Lines like, “From what you’ll be to how you’ll be when your childhood has passed,” felt like a lightbulb moment. It challenges the rigid boxes society often creates for kids. I loved how the narrator boldly dreams of a life full of love, gratitude, and exploration rather than being defined by a job title. The rhymes carry a sing-song rhythm, making the reading experience delightful yet reflective.
The illustrations by Jo Blake deserve special mention. They are vibrant and colorful and perfectly convey emotions in the characters. Each scene is evocative and captures the magic of the moment.
One of the most refreshing aspects of this children’s book is its inclusivity and open-endedness. By saying, “Or a they or a them, or have a home filled just with friends,” Murray makes space for different family structures and identities without making it feel forced. The message of embracing individuality and leading a life full of curiosity and kindness is universal. It’s a quiet yet powerful reminder to parents and children alike that life is less about achieving and more about being.
The Question is a heartfelt, thought-provoking read that goes beyond being just a children’s book. Its wisdom, wrapped in lyrical prose and dreamy illustrations, makes it a treasure for readers of all ages. I’d recommend it for parents looking to spark deeper conversations with their kids or anyone who wants a gentle nudge to rethink what truly matters in life.”
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